>People pleasing is a trauma response from growing up with adults that emotionally abused and neglected you. You manipulate people using kindness in order to protect yourself because that's how you survived, even if these people give absolutely no fucks about you and would not even piss on you if you were on fire. If you disagree then think about all the people in your life who are pleased with you and feel happy that a stranger on the internet is wrong. Based.