Gave me a chance to love again. I only ever planned to get married once. When my first marriage fell apart, I was certain I would be alone forever; that, given current circumstances, I would never be able to find someone willing to tolerate, let alone understand, how I see the world. How wrong I was. I had NO idea what love really was until she let me love her... Why is that kind? She saved me from pessimism, nihilism and a bleak existence.