Daily Juice It is not the things that happen to a man that cause him to fail or succeed, but what he believes about the things that happen to him. Never let the experiences of your past bring harm to your future; your future doesn't deserve the punishment. Nobody is a necessary factor for your success like you and your biggest competition is you. If you would get out of that situation, what you are going through doesn't matter, what matters is what is going through your mind and coming out of your mouth amidst the situation.