MARRIAGE IS NO PARTNERSHIP. There is hierarchy! It is clear and glaring. Having this hierarchy makes it easy for the family that comes as a result of marriage to be run. Every boat must have a captain. Every team must have a leader. Why do people have no issues have a CEO or BOSS at work but frown when we say the HUSBAND IS THE HEAD OF THE HOME. Hierarchy in marriage makes roles clear and distinct. The fact that one person changes names to start bearing the name of the other… Pretty much explains who the head is! Trying to distort this has only led to anger, confusion and frustration.