You might end up getting in trouble if you try treating others how you want to be treated, instead of how they would like you to treat them. For instance, if you are not a phone person, you might not call your friend because you assume that they feel the same way you do, which may not be the case. Try to be sensitive to the needs of others, and occasionally going out of your way to do something for them. Try not to judge. Be generous; try to do something nice for somebody on a regular basis.