How to get a person to like you Touching another person positively affects the contact with him, you’ll be treated more warmly, trusted more. At the initial stage, touch the person as if accidentally, so as not to arouse suspicion. For example, put your hand on his shoulder or fingers. Further, when the contact is established, in order not to lose it, but to strengthen it, you can touch deliberately, put your arm around, pat on the shoulder, take a hand.