Sad but true some men need approval and dont hold themselves in high enough esteem. You determine your worth not others. The degree of respect is earned by your actions and natural skills of the individual. You determine who you are and how you act in life and who are your friends. High standards & your word & honor determine your character. The ability to endure inspite of hate and do your duty is rare. I had five foes who wanted my end and did all they could to hurt me. I ignored them and did my duty and served my country, Those five changed and stopped because I earned their respect and they knew I had honor. Strong men do not need approval they protect because they are strong men.