Jews: Penalized or Privileged class?

This topic came out of the blew after a conversation I had with members of my family which started on the dangers of sugar free drinks like Pepsi Max and Chemtrails, which funnily enough caused them to joking call me Jerry Fletcher from Conspiracy Theories, to which I reminded them that Jerry was right, but this conversation ended abruptly when it came to the Jewish heritage. Now for the record my family are not Jewish they are Christian but the moment I talked about the fact that questioning the Holocaust was illegal in some countries or that 9/11 was suspiciously an inside job my father reacted like most drones do, he called it anti Semitic.
Now me having being used to be called it, then called upon some details of Rabbi's in leading positions regarding gentiles (goyim) raising the fact that racism is a broad term whilst Anti Semitism is Jew specific meaning they have a special protection, also suspicions about Jews in high ranking positions in Media, banking etc and those institutes have power over the people more than government. Now this time he response was more attune with borderline stupidity/abuse since we then all but called me a Nazi and satanic with quoting details like God's chosen people etc. He claimed that all these details were pamphleteering and lies before even hearing the evidence.

So let us look at their evidence.

WW2 - The defining moment regarding the Holocaust

So many were killed in that war but we ONLY here constantly about the Jews being gassed (which by the way is a most inefficient way to kill off a population) we forget that the Nazi's first invaded Poland now was Poland Jewish? Or was it the fact that in other records the rise of Nazisim was against anyone not Aryan (blonde haired blue eyed). So which is it, was Hitler wanting to kill just the Jews or everyone not like them? If it was EVERYONE then the Jewish argument goes out the window and reparations to Jews should stop. If however the aryan promotion message is incorrect and Hitler was indeed targetting Jews again the question should be asked WHY? After all just saying "Jews are mean" is hardly an argument an entire World War gets revolved around so how could Hitler have inspired an entire nation into war? So how did the Jews get on Hitler's bad side?

The US-Israel Payment scheme

Every year the UK provide thousands in grants to Israel and American sends Millions to Israel for one reason or another in terms of grants and similar and for what? Why should the west pay Israel at all especially since the west fought against the people that Jews claim was done to them in the point above, this would be like being rescued by a rapist only to charge your protector afterwards, it appears like a form of punishment.

God's Chosen people

Now this is an argument that would rub anyone the wrong way. There is no other way that a religion/heritage hybrid would survive by saying that are God's chosen group. This is favouritism and anyone who has had siblings  (or parents who have multiple children) knows the dangers of such practices, it breeds entitlement on those given such favour and inspires ire from those who aren't in the good graces so when Jews go around claiming they are the chosen what else do they expect.

So with this in mind ask yourself which are the Jews, persecuted or privileged and why?