The Havamal: A Heathen Path of Living (Part 19)

36.

A small hut of one's own is better,

A man is his master at home:

A couple of goats and a corded roof

Still are better than begging.

37.

A small hut of one's own is better,

A man is his master at home:

His heart bleeds in the beggar who must

Ask at each meal for meat.

As the old saying goes, “Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have.” These stanzas direct us that we should be happy for the independence that we have even if it is not very luxurious. Having a place of your own, the ability to buy your own food, and the ability to get around on your own are simply freedoms that many of us take for granted. Knowing that we are not completely dependent on others for even our most basic survival brings a sense of happiness that cannot be gained in any other way. Take time to look at your life and see ways in which you have become dependent on others. Can you find a way to live more independently, even if this means some short-term discomfort? Can you live with less if it will bring you closer to a happy life?