A Matter of Balance

 Balance is something that many people seek and wish for. Some never achieve it and many find it hard or can’t maintain it. So what is “Balance”. To some it is the balancing of everything in there life, or the feeling of calm and serenity because things are in order, and then there is the “Good & Bad”.

I want to address the later of the 3 since I’ve gotten scolded, comments and what not about some of my posts, especially on Wednesdays (Hump Day). Mind you I am speak of me and my thoughts on this matter, and by no means mean to hurt, direct or infringe on your beliefs. Many have said that I have good insight, say wonderful things, am very spiritual, and have helped them with my words. But some of the same have seen me as being naughty, out of line, and maybe a touch perverted & flirty. Hmmm, what gives? Well, I see it as a matter of my balance. Yes I have a tendency of being a lil’ naughty at times. What can I say, I’m still a man and yea, I do get horny from time to time. (Yes I just said that) I feel to deny your sexuality is to deny yourself of being a whole human and person. And to not allow yourself to be naughty from time to time is to be out of balance. In several traditions it is said that there is good and bad in all, a yin & yan if you will. This is also reflected in my own chosen spirituality.

And what harm does this cause? None since what I write and say is meant for my friends who are adults (well most of them are suppose to be, LOL) and is not intended for a child or children. If you want to use any of my writings or teachings I employ you to use your own better judgment and filter or change as you see fit where children are concerned. And I am human just like everyone else; I’m not perfect, far from that. But I do allow myself the fun of being naughty from time to time.

And for those that think that “being good and only doing good is the only way to be”. I say you are out of balance and denying yourself the other side of the scale, and some fun. Also by denying your own sexuality, you are denying yourself from being whole and your human primal instincts. I also see it as being overly one sided. But I also don’t believe in “sleeping around, or that there is such a thing as just strictly having sex without there being some feelings involved. To have such a loving contact or relationship must involve some feelings. Some can deny these feelings but are usually riddled with one or several other feelings or problems such as loneliness, self esteem, communication, and paranoia.

So my advice to all is to allow yourself to cut loose on occasion, let your hair down, and have some fun with it, Stay Safe My Friends!!!

Love, Peace, & Prayers

David Standing Oak