Response: I’m An Asian Woman Engaged To A White Man And, Honestly, I’m Struggling With That

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/unlearning-asian-fetish_us_5c547bb1e4b09293b203b7ed

God I love these.

Of course its another made up story by SJWs because they can never go five minutes without being racist or bigoted in some way.

I’m An Asian Woman Engaged To A White Man And, Honestly, I’m Struggling With That

Actually you're a racist in denial, although there's not a lot of denial that I see.

“Oh, God, another Asian girl/white boy couple,” I groan, dropping my fiancé’s hand.

So you not only have a racist opinion of white men, you also hate black men since you never dated one of them. I guess that stereotype of how fucking racist women are from asian-land is true. You'll still marry whitey, because black guys are still beneath you and you're hypergamous. I guess you must really hate black guys being the lowest of the low. Will a black or asian or whatever else man poison your eggs?

He hates it when I do this.

Good thing you don't give much of a shit about his opinions. I would have grabbed you by the back of the head made out with you publicly and grabbed your ass in front of them and said, "These little bitches sure are little spinners aren't they". And you know what? I would have gotten away with it because you'll still fuck me that night.

Also, that would have been our last night, because I would have noped out. Because you're a racist. Whatever fake name I gave you would have never been seen again.

You see? This is why seeing women as anything more than a moist hole is pointless. They're all brain dead.

So do I, really.

I'm sure the SJW in you will soldier on in your fake story which is all about hating whitey.

I know it’s unkind and self-loathing,

SJW confirmed. And you hate whitey as this article will show.

but every time I see another couple of our racial makeup, a little part of me sinks.

I know you asian girls are only good at math, but do you think it's really that odd in San Francisco, where asians are 33.3% of the population, and whites 48.1% that it's really not that unusual? You'd think simple math would be easy for you little asian computers to work out that, yes, whites and asians **do** date on occasion. Where do you think all these self-loathing happas come from?

We live in San Francisco, so this dip is as common as the hills.

Then why do you fucking care? Oh right, you're boring like everyone else.

In these moments, I wish we were anything else ― that he were my gay best friend or we were startup co-founders, that he were Asian and I were white, that we were exquisitely ambiguous races, or that I could sink like my feelings into the sidewalk, be a little worm, and date whomever I want without considering social perception.

SJWs care about that, the "perception". Like the fucking plague. Fuck reality. It's all about virtue signaling.

Embarrassment over your fake fiancé? Sounds like a winning relationships since we eventually learn you have a 100% failure rate at marriage.

So a white woman with an asian man would be ok? Fascinating. You are quite the racist. Or sexist. Or one of the bigots.

Shame is neither the wisest nor most mature part of oneself, but it still has a voice. “Stop it you guys!” my shame wants to say to these other couples. “Can’t you see the more of us there are, the worse it looks?”

“It” meaning the prevalent trend of Asian women seeming to end up with white men. “It” meaning the perpetuation of Asian fetish.

I think it's looks cute when races date. Ever seen a white kid and a black girl? It's adorable. They haven't been taught racism by people just like you yet.

You really are pathetic for a zipper head with a white guy fetish. But like all SJWs, you had no choice. You *had* to date a white guy, preferably with a high family income and net worth. I mean, it's not like you don't have 100% control over who you date. Or were you bought and paid for and trafficked from asianastan or whatever country "asian" is called?

The first time I heard the term ”Asian fetish,” I was the only Chinese kid in a tiny school.

Oh now you're Chinese instead of asian? That's completely different you racist. Also, why do you keep dating only that group that has the fetish? Was it 1970? How come none of this is your fault at all? Oh right, chinks can't take responsibility or accountability. No wonder Mao was able to murder 50 million of you so easily and you waved the little red book in the air for every murder, you fuck.

Other students in my class had been pairing up to date since fifth grade, exchanging love notes and making each other Alanis Morissette mixtapes. I waited for my ”Jagged Little Pill” cassette, but nothing came in fifth grade. Or sixth. Or seventh. Or eighth.

Yet immersed in white culture, you stuck to your guns and only hung out with Chinese guys right?

Finally, in ninth grade, I got an email on Valentine’s Day from a sporty, popular boy. The subject: DON’T SHOW THIS TO ANYONE. The body: a truly terrible poem asking me to be his girlfriend. “Oh, my God,” was all I could think. “Someone likes me!” Who cares if his grammar left something to be desired! I got on Instant Messenger and said yes.

So you're racist. You not only don't date your race, but only got excited when white boy showed up. Easier to manipulate I guess.

When classmates heard the news, I learned the term Asian fetish. Friends told me he’d been suffering from it for a little while now. I had only been familiar with the word “fetish” in regard to something like “foot fetish,” so I understood the implication: to be attracted to an Asian person was a kinky, odd thing.

There were no other asian / white relationships prior to that point? Just tales of sailors returning from the spice trade in the Orient?

Yes, finding a third of the population attractive is so fetishizing. You know why it's not fetishizing? It's a third of the population. Fetishes aren't the kind of things that are readily available. If they're readily available it's called things like the missionary position. It's also not a fetish.

To be taught at a young age that someone likes you because of a “fetish” tells you that you are by nature strange, abnormal.

No one taught you that, you just did what all budding young SJWs did, create an external problem to defensively hide your racism and classism. Incidentally, how did you escape communist China? Fled perhaps like all the other rich Chinese to make money in America? Fuck the homeland eh? Those fuckers can make iPhones.

I internalized: to be attracted to me was to have some sort of perversion. And so I learned to think of all Asians as less desirable and to be turned off by people who were turned on by me.

Boy what oppression. You're like that dumb bitch that complains how harassed you are because *so many hot guys* try to *buy you drinks* and you had to *only sleep with half of them* because *you're so hot* that you can't *escape their bukkake videos* and it's *such a burden*.

Like that? I know how you people from asianastan love bukkake. As I recall they refer to you as "Milky Girls" because you love the jizz so much. Cumsluts are the white person term.

Even as I forayed into dating this boy, I was put off by much of what he said. My friends weren’t wrong about his Asian fetish. “I just feel like Asian girls are deeper than other girls, y’know?” he said to me once.

I learned to think of all Asians as less desirable and to be turned off by people who were turned on by me.

I thought it would get better in college but every time someone non-Asian showed interest, the whispers would start: I heard he had a half-Asian girlfriend in high school. He took a Japanese class last semester. Huge fan of sushi. Like, big time.

You listened to jagged little pill, you have a caucasian fetish, you like their music, you accept valentines from them, you fuck them, you're a fucking credit to you race. Racist. Is it a fetish if you like a guy for him money? Asking for a rich friend.

What if he he liked your face or tits? Would that make it better to be liked for that genetic component? Have you had more than one BF? Guess what bitch, you're all replaceable, just like everyone else. You're just a SJW, not unique in any way.

Sometimes it was hard to tell what was a valid warning sign and what was not.

Why would that be a warning sign compared to, say, him liking chicks with big boobs? Are you worried you'll be less asian in six months? I can guarantee you'll be SJW bitch forever.

Misguided compliments were a pretty good indicator, though. “Every white and Asian male is jealous that I’m with you,” my first college boyfriend said. Even at the time, I remember wondering, why would you assume that I’m only desirable to white and Asian men? He assumed that, of course, because of my race. Race-based compliments reveal when people aren’t seeing you as the individual person that you are but as a piece of something.

Kind of like your white guy fetish and culture? Isn't being racist fun? I'm sure in asianastan, white men aren't considered the best BFs or anything. It's almost like you come from a culture that fetishizes white men. Let's discuss that for awhile.

That's cute. You think you're an individual because you listened to jagged little pill, and obscure album no one ever heard of. You're a fucking asian stereotype in action. I bet you even have a "kung fu" grip.

It took me a little while to figure this out, but once I became more settled in college, I met my first Asian boyfriend, who ended up being my husband. Sadly, he also became my ex-husband. This relationship was followed by one with another Asian male. Suffice it to say, I went a decade without the thought of white men or Asian fetish even crossing my mind.

Once you took some gender studies courses at Berkely so you knew you were oppressed, you fell back to stereotypes and then made mama and papa proud and got "good asian husband" who may or may not be Chinese. I hope he was Japanese frankly, and played Nanjing Massacre in the bed room with you. Hope he didn't have an "asian" fetish. Does he make you dress up "asian" in the bedroom, you racist?

Now it’s something I think about every day, because of said fiancé.

You can't keep a man, let's go more in depth as to why you got divorced and your eventual return to the other white meat? Any interesting reasons why? You don't sound like good asian wife at all. Submit to your husband. No? Then you don't really matter at all. Hope you're making bank at HuffPo, but then, you're marrying a white guy for his money so I'm sure you're not too worried.

He came into my life during a period when I had sworn off men.

Exploring your lesbian side again? It's common at Berkely.

I had been in relationships my entire adult life and just wanted to focus on myself. “Single for five years!” I declared my goal proudly. Eleven months later, he showed up at my door.

For someone that seems to take significant time off dating, you sure you date constantly.

5 years? Come on. I'm sure you blame him for wasting your "best years" when you took half a decade off.

He was there for a party I was hosting, and he didn’t hit on me.

You're old and divorced, no one wants you. Only a quirk of genetics made you look young.

And I bet it was a fetish, but since he's not in 9th grade, he's smart enough not to mention it.

He asked me questions and listened to my answers.

Pretended.

We discovered we had gone to the same college, had the exact same self-made major, were both left-handed, loved to write, didn’t drink and couldn’t handle spicy food.

Self-made major? Is this one of those degrees in Playstation? Some SJW oppression degree in No-One-Give-A-Fuck-So-Now-You-SJW-For-HuffPo? Do you also barista on the side? Oh right, you're marrying whitey for money.

A mutual friend we both loved was sick, and we initially started seeing each other just to visit her in the hospital. One evening we found ourselves alone together. I told him my plan to be single for a long time and that we could only be friends. He told me that he honestly felt more but would respect my needs. He never pushed, but we kept seeing each other, kept asking each other questions, listening to the answers. It never got boring.

Yeah right. No woman on Earth tells you she wants to be single for a long time. It had been 5 years at this point. You think that yellow won't crack one day? That's called a shit test, where you claim you want to be singe, and in reality it's a shit test to make him try harder. Kinda weird since you're anti-white man. Why don't you pick one of those ugly short brown chicks from Berekely? They're heavily racist like you. Or do they have a lesbian fetish because San Fran is so **not** gay?

As I started to consider lifting my relationship ban, that old white ghost came back again: the whispers of Asian fetish. He has a pattern of dating Asian women. Do you know how many Asian girlfriends he’s had? He just might have an Asian fetish.

But since you're old and divorced you'll soldier through it.

“What the fuck?!” I demanded of him.

Was that like the first words in the morning or did he just nut all over your back.

"I’ve never seen it that way!” he insisted. “I grew up in Cupertino, so most of my classmates were Asian, and not all of my girlfriends have been Asian … but yes, most I guess. I just never thought about it.”

I do love how this simp is apologizing for your mental disorders.  Damn statistics. Doesn't whitey know he should stay in his lane and stick to his race?

Did you bring up your money fetish? Since that's all you asianstanians care about?

I rolled my eyes at the luxury white men have to not think about race in their daily lives.

I lived in New Orleans and can confirm that white men, do not in fact, have that luxury. Black people are 60.2% of the population there, which shocked me because I thought it was 80%. It shocked me even more, because I lived in Central City, where it's 100%. I was one of 4 white people I ever saw there and that's not hyperbole. It was a fucking war zone leaving the apartment and the police lights made it look like Xmas every night. If you think you and your black friends can't be racist, I assure you, it's open season on white boys. Also, why aren't you dating black guys? I've seen black guys with asian playthings like you. Can you be less racist for 30 seconds and look at your dating options?

I, on the other hand, started obsessing over it.

You do this regularly. You clearly have mental problems. You have a lot of fears about everything around you, I guess that's why you're racist.

I couldn’t be the girlfriend of someone who had an Asian fetish because that would make me complicit in a pattern that was rooted in violence and colonization. I was busy trying to be a progressive, independent woman and an Asian fetish boyfriend did not fit the bill.

Violence and colonization? Unlike your sex games of Nanking Massacre? How about Cambodia? No? It's all asianastan, don't you know your own countries history? Mongol invasions. Nothing? You built that big ol' wall and all. Also, I think the "colonizers" wanted your spices and shit. It has never been about you remember? You're just oppressed. It was about trade.

On the other hand, he hadn’t once given me a race-based compliment or made me feel anything but respected. I knew him to be a good person, someone who was working on being better every day. That’s the kind of partner I wanted, the kind of person who’s so hard to find.

"You know for a chink chick, you sound like a proper communist. How original. Ching Chong, Bing Bong, more tea please."

He's another berkeley faggot. You think he even notices you being a slope? That would go against his programming.

I couldn’t be the girlfriend of someone who had an Asian fetish because that would make me complicit in a pattern that was rooted in violence and colonization.

You are so fucking insane. Do you hide this from him? Of course not. Real racists like you never hide it, you just justify it.

So I returned to him with homework.

Fuck you bitch. Your SJWism is pathetic. I'm not going to read your old oppression college books. That's your fetish. Your primary programming is sucking this dick, and doing laundry. I hear you "asians" are supposed to be good at that. Laundry that is. Your throats are too short.

“You can rationalize your dating history all you want,” I said one night in bed. (Do Asian women have a reputation for being good at pillow talk by the way? Because I feel like I’m killing it.) “But you can’t deny how it looks from the outside.

My God you're insufferable, like every fucking asian bitch ever. You're an americanized cul-de-sac white girl and just as useless. Why the fuck is he tolerating you at all?

Have you ever wondered why so many guys fuck you from behind? Yeah.

And most importantly, you have to consider how it makes the women you’ve dated feel. Think about how it feels to be one in a line of many women who look like you. How replaceable must that make one feel? How demeaning is that?”

Feel about what? Since all asians have a money fetish, how do you feel about being a money-grubbing bitch? Like **all** asians? You don't seen very unique in that regard. "Oh look, an asian SJW in california who cares about money, how originial."

Listen idiot, the reason you look all the same, is because you do look all the same. You know how money you worship looks like green pieces of paper? All you zippers have dark hair, squinty eyes, and hello kitty paraphernalia. Sorry, genetics makes you look like that. In America where white people live, you would probably equate it to soulless redheads, the "asian" of America. Can't stand sunlight, worship the devil, the regular stuff.

Despite his tendency to be defensive (is that one of those hot white guy traits?), he took my request to step outside himself seriously.

Ha ha hah ah ah a. He's already handling you. He just doesn't see the giant red flag.

He asked me questions, and he listened to my answers.

Because he knows how to play stupid SJWs. Then he can get back to nutting all over your ass.

We delved into not only the dynamic between Asian females and white males but also unfair portrayals of Asian men throughout history, and the backlash that public figures like Constance Wu and Chloe Kim have contended with for dating white men. It’s an uncomfortable conversation, but we’ve continued it through the years.

No that's not a "hot white guy" trait, that's a beta male trait who wants poon. A hot white guy trait would be backhanding you across the room for your racist slurs and finding someone who isn't a fucking embarrassment.

The reason we’re still together is that I know I don’t have to wrestle with these discomforts by myself.

You made him miserable, so now you're happy. How not-asian of you. So he's treating you like the screaming asian bitch, like your mother that you've become, and trying to just let you run out of steam since racism is his fetish apparently.

If we pass three couples in a row who are white men and Asian women and I ask, “But seriously, why?!” he won’t pretend he didn’t see it too.

How can he not? You scream about it all day. Who gives a fuck? You certainly are the most racist bitch every to be dumb enough to write an article, but then I've seen how you asians treat blacks in person. They didn't accidentally start attacking your businesses during the L.A. riots, and you didn't 'accidentally' have defensive fun emplacements either. Fucking racist.

He’s making an effort to not leave me alone in the awkward parts of our love, and I’m making an effort to not let go of his hand. We’re not perfect. But after I rise from the little dips of shame, I wouldn’t actually want either of us to be anything else.

You have awkward issues. And he's failing by handling your ass. Code: Ignore your ass. No, you're not perfect, you're a fucking nightmare. He was just fine until you stopped taking your meds.

But you've fully integrated into being a spoiled white bitch, so you got that going for you.

You know what an 'asian" fetish is? Asian women are more attractive than other groups because they age better. Most asian women are not fat fucks like white women, so they look more feminine. You age better, so even a useless old divorcee like yourself with no ass can land a quality man because of your genetics last longer than fat saggy white girls.

Your ancestors swallowed *all* the soy, so you have a nice hormonal basis which makes you have more feminine features, the same reason asian "lady-boys" pass as girls better than fat beer gut whitey. It's the same reason asian men feel inferior to whitey as well. White girls are manly these days.

You have flat boring faces like you were hit in the face with a shovel. White women do not. The reason this is to your advantage is because you can do a wide variety of makeup that whitey can't, so you can look like anything you want, so you can tailor yourself to chameleon all day long. Go watch YT videos to see how you chinks fake your looks.

Then there's this lie that asian women are submissive, which they aren't, but they have no problem pretending to be to get that money. Don't you.

You know real asian stereotypes from the old days? It was believed you asians were monkeys or descended from monkeys. It's also believed your vaginal slit went horizontal instead of vertical.

Did you know that? Weird isn't it, but you see sailors write about it from the "old days". Maybe your fiancé is an anthropologist.

Also, you're a racist.

Tria Chang

Guest Writer

And you're a scab after HuffoPo laid off their SJWs. How did you survive the cut? Did you do some asian rug munching to keep your job?

So HuffPo actively promotes racism with their racist-in-chief Tria Chang.  You can always tell the real racists because they just can't hide it.  It's just a "bash white men" argument all over again, except now they have some whiny asian to do it.  How original.