Have you ever been under duress to save your relationship?
Like you have to do certain thing or go against your principle to make them stay.
Now do you know that you can still end up loosing both your value and the relationship?
Do you know that being good to people is not a guarantee that they will love you back?
The only way to secure a relationship is by treating your partner good,doing what is right and giving no rooms for doubt. Don't loose yourself or principle in a bid to make someone stay. I repeat DO NOT LOOSE YOURSELF. Humans are unpredictable. Do not compromise your value, you may end up loosing both the relationship and the value.