Before this becomes a "twitter 2" trashfire, can we please dispense with the pronouns and the "they/them" bullshit?
There are exactly 2 genders, and if you get it wrong on somebody, it's no big deal. Especially with the almighty "edit" button!
"They/them" is a plural pronoun. When you use it for one person, it's confusing and downright annoying.