THIS - totally! I TOO have been told numerous times over the past 20+ years since I recieved my late-in-life diagnosis that "we" don't say certain things, use certain terms, and it's all different depending on who I'm talking to. The "autism community" really isn't as homogeneous as some people might THINK it is... 🙄 In the words of Ricky Nelson: "But it's all right now, I learned my lesson well. You see, ya can't please everyone, so ya got to please yourself..." 😌 -Mrs. entryreqrd