Our culture has a sickness deep within its core. We worship the effeminate and hate that which makes women, well, women; their ability to birth, to create life etc. We worship the odd and peculiar, believe there are no noble insiders, only noble outsiders, and strangers from far off lands. We believe our culture dead, the last stones of its foundations crumbled, while in truth, we are if this attitude continues, on that exact path. They are willing society into destruction.
We honour the weak, despise the strong and men… don’t even mention that Untermensch. Men are the worst of them all. We are hated, derided, mocked for the fact we are behaviourally different from the frail and fragile, but “oh so brave” women of the modern era. Let me tell you something: back in the days before intersectionality reared its ugly head, women COULD be strong without destroying the reputation, and thus, lives of men. Women COULD be more than some men, and could be equal to men.
In fact, there is a saying, “Behind every great man is a great woman.” I’m sure that would be considered grossly offensive by most sensitive snowflake types, but I don’t care. Problem is, there really, truly are very few great women from my perspective. Great women are raised. They don’t have the world handed to them on a silver platter, they don’t hate men. They honour their fathers (and you’ll find, most great women do have fathers, a difference I cannot overstate) and they respect their mothers.
What we have today are a group of women who have been rendered beings-of-higher-magnitude. What we have is a model of women, that isn’t, as I’d sum it up “mother, provider of love and affection, considerate, caring, bringer of the feeling of ‘home’ to the unit.” No, the current model of women is “Man but better.”
Using that model, where do men fit in? Shall we be surfs to the great female goddesses? Shall we kiss the feet of these monolithic creatures of great frailty and power? No. We must show society there is a genuine, serious case for masculinity. There is a genuine and serious case for men to be able to show that they are strong, for men to create, for men to grow.
In other words, you win by not succumbing to these harpies, by being greater than them, and trust me, it really isn’t hard; they only want power and control and to take the masculinity mantle until it’s hard; you show them exactly why they’re wrong and why they cannot have it by being the best man you can be.
You change society by becoming society of your own. You take back control of your life, ignore what everyone else says and begin to assert with confidence that your model, traditional or near-traditional, or even just “not toxic” as it is.
My god, the amount of toxic relationships I’ve seen and been in; the power plays, the attempts to use children as a weapon, all of that is ripping society apart, and it’s all because of the fact that most women have no reason to be concerned at all financially, or about the status of their family, because they can simply marry the state.
Solution? Self-sufficiency seems to be approaching a valid, solid solution to the problem. More on that in another post soon. The only way to win, overall, is to be the best you that you can be. You, as in the untethered, full, open you that you are will blow away any skin-surface, paper-thin veneer they can paint onto themselves. Be the best you that you can be; the best partner, the best father or mother, the best, strongest version you can be.
As for me? I’ll keep trying. I have a lot of work to do.
Thanks for reading.